We all have experienced that feeling in one way or the other : the ending of a friendship. There can be a lot of reasons why a friendship ends, may it be because there was a fight, because it was a toxic friendship or because you have just outgrown each other. But the core of it is always the hurt it brings. Yes ending a relationship hurts but losing a friend is a special kind of heartache.
In fact
The fact is that you have shared so much with that person, you have experienced so much together that more often you become family. But now, they are gone, it’s over, a huge part of your life is gone and you have to readjust. Change never is easy but it often is necessary.
There is a saying “a friend comes into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime”. And it is true. Lots of people don’t stay in your life forever, even if you thought they would. That is normal. It is natural that you are outgrowing some people, that your interests and your lifestyle change . It just shows that you are evolving as a human.
For whatever reason it ended, there is always something you can learn from it. .
I also believe that everything happens for a reason .Maybe it is just to make room for the right people to come into your life.
When you are losing a friend
who once meant a lot to you,
I think it hurts so much
because you have
those memories
of that person.
Those laughs,
those many times
where you shared
joyful moments together,
but also when
they were there with you
at your downs.
But the thing is,
they changed into
what doesn’t fit with your energy anymore?
It hurts so much
because you have
all those memories
but see them growing away
from that person
you once
held so dearly in your heart,
and you can do nothing about it.
